Okay, so, let’s talk about how Aquarius folks act when they’re hurt. It’s kinda interesting, ’cause they’re not your typical criers or drama queens. I remember this one time…
I had this friend, a total Aquarius, and we were super tight. We had this friend group, and everyone was hanging out. We always shared what we thought, you know, open to each other. But then I messed up. I kinda, sorta, let a secret of hers slip out. Not on purpose, you know, it just happened. I apologized right away when I found it, and I really meant it. But she just… shut down.
The Silent Treatment
She didn’t yell or get all dramatic, which is what I kinda expected. Instead, she just went quiet. Like, totally silent. She’d still be around in our group, but it was like I was invisible. She wouldn’t even look at me, let alone talk to me. It was like being frozen out.
Analyzing and Detaching
Later, I learned that this is a pretty common thing for Aquarians. They tend to process their emotions more in their heads, you know? They think things through, analyze the situation, and kind of detach a bit. It’s not that they don’t feel hurt, it’s just that they deal with it in a more… cerebral way.
- They go quiet: No big emotional outbursts, just silence.
- They need space: They withdraw to process their feelings.
- They think it through: They’re analyzing the situation and figuring things out.
So, yeah, it took some time, but eventually, my friend and I talked it out. She explained how what I did made her feel, and I apologized again, like, a million times. We eventually patched things up, but it was a rough patch. It taught me a lot about how different people deal with hurt, especially Aquarians.
If you hurt an Aquarius, they are going to be cold to you. At least, this is my experience. It is not easy for me to deal with it, so I choose to apologize and wait for the response.
Anyways, that’s my little story about dealing with a hurt Aquarius. They’re unique, that’s for sure, but once you understand how they tick, it’s easier to navigate those tricky situations.
