Okay, so here’s the deal. I wanted to figure out if this Aries woman I’ve been seeing was just playing games with me. You know how it is, sometimes you just get that feeling, right?
So, first off, I started by just observing her actions more closely. Aries women are known for being super independent and straightforward, but also kinda impulsive. I paid attention to how she communicated with me. Was she consistent? Did she flake on plans a lot? These were the questions running through my head.
Then, I tried to gauge her level of interest. Did she initiate conversations? Did she seem genuinely interested in my life, or was it all about her? I made a mental note of every time she reached out first, and every time she actually listened to what I had to say. It was like being a detective, but for my own love life.
Gathering My Data, Feelings, and Observations
- Checked her social media activity. Was she always posting about being out with other people? Was she liking other guys’ pictures a little too much? Yeah, I went there. Don’t judge me.
- Analyzed our text messages. Were her replies short and uninterested, or did she actually engage in the conversation? I even counted how many times she used emojis – a man’s gotta do what a man’s gotta do.
- Observed her body language when we were together. Did she lean in when I talked? Did she maintain eye contact? Or was she always looking around, distracted? This stuff is important, guys.
After a few weeks of this, I started to see a pattern. She was hot and cold, you know? One day she’d be all over me, the next it was like I barely existed. She’d cancel plans at the last minute, and her excuses were getting pretty lame. I felt myself going crazy. It became difficult to keep up with her and it felt really bad.
Finally, I decided to just be upfront about it. I confronted her, calmly, and told her how I was feeling. I explained that I needed more consistency and that I wasn’t interested in playing games. It was a tough conversation, but I had to do it. Then I waited for her response.
And guess what? She admitted that she wasn’t ready for anything serious and that she had been keeping her options open. Ouch, right? But honestly, I appreciated her honesty. It saved me a lot of time and heartache in the long run. So, that’s my story. It was a bit of a rollercoaster, but I learned a lot about myself and what I’m looking for in a relationship.
