So, I’ve been trying to figure out this whole thing about winning over an Aquarius guy. It’s been a journey, let me tell you. I started by just, you know, observing and trying to understand what makes them tick.
First off, I paid attention to what he was into. What did he talk about? What got him excited? Aquarius guys are all about their minds, so I figured I needed to show him I could keep up. I started by reading stuff he was interested in, just to have something to chat about. Nothing too intense, just enough to show I was interested in what he had to say.
Then, I made an effort to be a good friend. Like, actually listen when he talked and be there for him. I didn’t push for anything more at first, just focused on building a solid friendship. It was about showing him I valued him as a person, not just a potential romantic interest.
- I gave him his space, seriously. Aquarius guys need their alone time, and I respected that. I didn’t smother him or constantly demand attention. I let him come to me when he was ready.
- I tried to be independent and have my own life. This was key. He wasn’t looking for someone to cling to him, he wanted a partner who could stand on her own two feet. I showed him I had my own interests, hobbies, and friends.
- I was open-minded and embraced his unique way of seeing the world. They’re known for being a bit quirky, and I didn’t shy away from that. I celebrated his individuality and encouraged him to be himself.
It was a gradual thing
It wasn’t like a light switch flipped. It took time and patience. But slowly, we started to connect on a deeper level. We had these amazing conversations about everything and nothing. I could tell he felt comfortable being himself around me, and that was huge.
Finally, I just went for it and told him how I felt. I didn’t make a big deal out of it, just put it out there honestly and openly. And guess what? He felt the same way! It wasn’t about playing games or following some script. It was about being genuine, respecting his need for freedom, and connecting with him on an intellectual level. That’s the secret sauce, at least for me it was.
And so that’s my story of how I think to attract the Aquarius man I like. It’s been a wild ride, but so worth it.
