Okay, so, the other day, I noticed my Gemini man started acting a bit distant. You know, fewer texts, shorter calls, the whole deal. It kinda freaked me out, to be honest. So, I did what any modern woman would do – I went down the internet rabbit hole.
My Gemini Man Pulls Away
First thing I did was try to remember anything I might have done. Did I say something wrong? Was I too clingy? Too distant? I literally replayed our last few conversations in my head like a broken record.
Then, I started searching online like crazy. I read tons of articles, forum posts, everything I could find about Gemini men and why they pull away. Some of it was helpful, some of it was total garbage.
After I calmed down a bit, I decided to take a step back. Instead of bombarding him with messages, I gave him some space. I figured, if he needs time, I should respect that. It was hard, though! I really wanted to just ask him what was going on.
While I was giving him space, I focused on myself. I went out with my friends, caught up on some hobbies, and basically just tried to keep myself busy. It helped me not to obsess over the situation.
After a few days, I decided to reach out, but casually. I didn’t want to pressure him, so I just sent a simple text, like, “Hey, how’s it going?”
- No accusations.
- No drama.
- Just a friendly check-in.
He actually responded pretty quickly, and we ended up having a good conversation. He explained that he’d been feeling overwhelmed with work and just needed some time to himself. He assured me that it had nothing to do with me.
So, in the end, it all worked out. I learned that sometimes, giving someone space is the best thing you can do. I’ve always made a point of respecting his “me” time, and if anything odd happens, I will initiate communication. And, honestly, it was a good reminder to focus on my own life, too. It’s easy to get caught up in a relationship, but it’s important to maintain your own independence.
