Okay, so I’ve been seeing this question pop up all over the internet: “Does a Virgo man like to be chased?” And honestly, I was curious too! I mean, Virgos are known for being, well, a bit particular, right? So, I decided to do some digging, and maybe even a little experimenting of my own. 😉
My Little Virgo Experiment
First, I scoured the internet. Forums, relationship blogs, astrology sites – you name it, I read it. The general consensus was… confusing. Some people said Virgo men love the thrill of the chase, others said they prefer to be the pursuer. It was a total mixed bag!
Then, I decided to take things a little further. I have this friend, let’s call him “Mark,” who’s a Virgo. We’ve always had a bit of a flirty vibe, but nothing serious. I figured, why not use this opportunity to, you know, test the waters?
The “Chase” (or Lack Thereof)
I didn’t want to go full-on stalker mode, obviously. So, I started subtle. I made sure to engage with him more on social media – liking his posts, commenting on his stories, that sort of thing. I also made an effort to “accidentally” bump into him at our usual coffee spot a couple of times.
His reaction? Pretty… neutral. He was friendly, he chatted, but I didn’t get the sense that he was particularly excited by my attention. It was more like, “Oh, hey, it’s you again.”
I also tried a slightly direct approach. I normally use my whatsapp to contact with my friend, and this time I tried to use telegram to send a message to * a casual, “Hey, how’s your week going?” text. He replied, but the conversation didn’t exactly take off. It felt more like polite small talk than genuine interest.
The “Let Him Come to You” Approach
After a couple of weeks of my subtle (and not-so-subtle) attempts, I decided to switch gears. I backed off completely. No more liking his posts, no more “accidental” run-ins, no more texts. I figured, if he’s interested, he’ll reach out, right?
And guess what? He… didn’t. At least, not for a while. A few weeks went by, and I pretty much wrote the whole thing off as a failed experiment.
The Unexpected Twist
Then, out of the blue, he messaged me. He asked if I wanted to grab a drink sometime. I was genuinely surprised! We ended up having a great time, and he actually admitted that he’d noticed my earlier attempts to get his attention. He said he appreciated the effort, but he’s just not the type to respond to that kind of “chase.” He prefers to get to know someone organically, without any pressure.
My Conclusion (for Now)
So, based on my very limited, totally unscientific experiment, I’d say that Virgo men don’t necessarily like to be chased. At least, not in the traditional sense. They seem to prefer a more natural, low-pressure approach. They appreciate genuine interest, but they’re not fans of being aggressively pursued.
Of course, every Virgo man is different. This is just my personal experience. But if you’re crushing on a Virgo, I’d recommend taking it slow, being yourself, and letting things develop naturally. You might be surprised by the results!
