Anna’s Talk # This issue’s theme revolves around the sun and the ascending sign. First, let’s look at a Baidu dictionary entry: "A female bosom friend" refers to a female friend with whom a man can talk about anything, share deep resonances, and is extremely intimate. Nowadays, many people feel that there’s a hint of ambiguity in the term "female bosom friend." Nevertheless, Anna wants to clarify at the outset that what she’s about to discuss are those women who, once men start talking to them, find it hard to stop. These are the partners who can confide in each other at the deepest level, with relationships that are purely and simply platonic. Although a female bosom friend doesn’t pose a threat to one’s love life or family, as they are merely friends, women might still learn a thing or two from these zodiac signs. If your partner avoids talking to you and seeks out a female bosom friend instead, over time, this relationship might become a potential crisis, like a hidden bomb.
Scroll down for a quiz: Who has been silently protecting you?
Sagittarian Women
Guys generally enjoy hanging out with Sagittarians because these women are straightforward and as close as a brother, yet more relaxed and comfortable than pure brotherhood. We all know that men tend to be more direct with each other, and when faced with significant disagreements, they usually don’t get entangled in emotional drama. They might even resolve conflicts with fists. But with a Sagittarian woman, there’s a brotherly rapport, and they certainly don’t resort to violence. What’s more, Sagittarian women often offer advice from a female perspective, like guiding a guy when he’s pursuing a girl he likes. When you ask men about their interactions with Sagittarian women, they usually express joy and satisfaction. That happiness is ineffable, reducible only to laughter. Mentioning Sagittarian women always brings forth immediate praise for their fun, playful, and great personalities. They’re a source of joy, and many women also appreciate them. Sagittarian women build friendships on, treating friends like sisters or brothers, not too concerned about gender boundaries. But this is also why they get tangled up when they meet someone they like. Often, the guy becomes just a friend in the process. Stories like this are common: A guy asks a Sagittarian woman for help in pursuing a girl, only to realize later that she’s had a crush on him all along. Sagittarian women always seem so happy, relaxed, and carefree, like a warm current that warms up the people around them, making all troubles and stresses seem less important. Moreover, they often come out with lines that make you laugh out loud, not just making you burst into laughter but also helping you see things in a new light. This is why guys love to confide in them and enjoy having fun together.
Pisces Women
Many guys love to confide in Pisces because they are, without a doubt, exceptional listeners. Pisces, by nature, is inclined to serve others, feeling valuable only when needed. So, when you’re in trouble and need her company, she feels genuinely happy. Moreover, they seem to have a magical ability to heal souls, making them natural healers. Pisces women not only heal themselves but also have a knack for comforting others. They present a gentle, harmless image that makes them approachable and trustworthy. Men feel compelled to share their hearts with them, especially when they’re feeling down or discouraged. Pisces women don’t say hurtful things and empathize deeply with others’ pain. After talking to a Pisces, many people feel they’ve truly been understood. Guys who have dated Pisces often find it hard to find someone else who gets them as well, mainly because the "giving" and "understanding" Pisces offer is profound. However, to be honest, Pisces’ empathy is mainly based on emotional resonance, and they might not truly understand all of someone’s feelings. They usually don’t argue with others but follow the speaker’s train of thought, offering some guidance at the right moments. But the "Pisces understands me" illusion men have often comes from the fact that Pisces are good at certain areas or skilled at sorting out emotions, able to analyze the ins and outs of a situation and offer summary advice. These Pisces are often worldly-wise, not just listeners but also organizers and advisors. No wonder men find them so understanding. Plus, their gentle attitude and talent for saying the right thing at the right time make every word hit home. These qualities are definitely worth learning for other women.
Virgo Women
If Virgos were transported back to ancient times, they’d be the perfect candidates for a man’s female bosom friend. They’d be the ones burning incense, waiting for the moon in the spring, adding fragrance to a man’s night of reading. The delicate touch of their hands, the meticulous process of adding incense, and the scholarly aura they exude could only be found in a Virgo. They are, talented, and reserved. Even today, many Virgos still possess these qualities. Compared to other women, Virgos often have an outstanding demeanor. A careful observation reveals that men who become close to Virgos are usually successful or have deep, rich inner lives and appear mature and stable. These men treasure the good qualities of Virgos. While some may prefer lively partners, others may love gentle beauties, or clever girls, none can match the long-lasting and tacit companionship of a Virgo. Virgos are the silent guardians always by your side. They’re willing to think for you and even plan your future, guiding you with their knowledge and smoothing your path. Virgos’ ability to plan for life and caution men when they’re on the brink of danger is not something every woman has. Governed by Mercury, Virgos are meticulous, logical, and symbolize precision and management skills. However, thisness can make them overly cautious. I mentioned before that in the business world, Virgos and Scorpios have many similarities, but why do Virgos often lose to Scorpios? It’s because Virgos are too cautious, lacking some adventurous spirit. This often leaves Virgos without partners or assistants, unable to reach the peak. But this cautious nature is just right for a female bosom friend. Overall, Virgos are very suitable for the role of "advisor." Hence, many mature men especially appreciate women with Virgo traits as female bosom friends. Virgos can predict risks in places men don’t notice, becoming their reliable advisors. Not only in business, but in life and relationships, Virgos can carefully plan for men. Who wouldn’t love such a female bosom friend?
Gemini Women
Men prefer Gemini as female bosom friends because their thoughts are as flighty as a horse in the sky, changing direction so quickly it’s dizzying. Imagine talking to a woman for half a day and getting a "Oh" in response. Men would lose all desire to continue the conversation. But a Gemini woman is different. They’re adept at picking up your topics unless they choose not to. Any subject you throw at them, they can handle. They can even lead your thoughts, making you speed up to keep up with their pace. Gemini is undoubtedly a master at gathering information, retaining everything they hear or see and capable of integrating this information. Hence, many Gemini women excel in fields like detective work, media, PR, and advertising. They can organize disordered information and provide key details whenever needed. Their thoughts are full of creativity, often thinking of ideas that others wouldn’t. Therefore, men do get a lot of information from Gemini women. Gemini’s thoughts are highly jumping, and when men hit a bottleneck in their career or life, a single sentence from a Gemini can break through the deadlock and point the way. It’s not that Gemini women have a deep understanding of men’s lives or industries, but their broad information gathering and integration can reveal the essence of things. Moreover, their analytical angles are often fresh and unique, enlightening those in their midst. Listening to a Gemini woman is like reading ten years of books. Sometimes, Gemini women themselves are puzzled, wondering why just stating what they know can enlighten others and make them feel like they’ve been awakened from a dream. This naivety and cuteness are truly endearing.
Today’s quiz: Who has been silently protecting you? Think about the question and choose the image that your intuition tells you the answer to.
