Navigating the internet waves, aren’t you often left scratching your head when you readconstellation analyses, wondering, "This doesn’t even remotely describe me!"
For instance, phrases like "You’re wrong,×× isn’t drama queen at all," "Too bad,×× is dragging us down," or "×× male and female are not the same species…" These are just some of the common gripes. Today’s series is here to tackle that confusion, diving into the differences between males and females of the sameconstellation, giving you a more nuanced understanding of that person.
The Self-proclaimed Child from Mars
Those who don’t get Aquarius find their thoughts perplexing. They are erratic, eccentric, and hard to pin down.
Aquarius is complex and adept at concealment. Their complexity stems from idealism, researching the extreme of things, and having high expectations for the things they care about. It’s an inner demand they can’t control.
So when they’re excited, they’re like children, full of passion and brilliant ideas. But when they’re down, they don’t want to show it, becoming internally conflicted and contradictory, leaving others baffled.
Aquarius has a pretty good social circle, being fun, outgoing, and stylish. This is where Aquarius males slightly edge out the females. They don’t crave the spotlight, but they adhere to what’s right, always ready to offer objective advice.
Aquarius males and females are easy to get along with yet stubborn. This is most evident in their intimate relationships. Friends who have dated or been close to them will certainly have a deep understanding of this. Dominant yet sensitive, Aquarius doesn’t need recognition but never admit defeat.
You can sense that both male and female Aquarius are self-centered. Because they subconsciously don’t easily align with others, everyone around them feels they’re from Mars.
A common theme among Aquarius males and females is their independent and strong-willed nature.
Facing Growth
Aquarius females become more determined, while males falter and contradict themselves
Both strong-willed and mature Aquarius males and females are good at fighting for themselves when they’re young, full of curiosity, conquer, and optimism for tomorrow.
But when they face certain events (like broken hearts or societal constraints), their high expectations are cruelly shattered by reality, and differences start to show.
The contradiction within Aquarius males
Even though they may consider options from a humanitarian perspective, weighing the pros and cons and making compromises, Aquarius males are often not convinced by rules. The flame inside them always burns, temporarily suppressed. Their bodies function normally, but their hearts are unwilling, creating the contradictory and rebellious daily life of Aquarius. That’s why Aquarius males often have a nostalgia for their first loves and a sentimental complex.
Chasing the true self repeatedly, from a dream-chasing world back to self-cultivation, the growth of Aquarius males is a process of contraction.
The unwavering faith of Aquarius females
In comparison, Aquarius females are much calmer. They are a group of girls who are good at letting things go, open-minded, and kind to themselves.
They’ve also experienced confusion and self-denial, cursing the unfairness of the world, but to Aquarius females, there’s nothing they can’t accept. They have a core belief supporting them, which you can understand as similar to Buddhism: everything moves forward.
With a strong capacity for, Aquarius females calmly reflect and return to life from the initial strong self-realization, realizing that the small details are what’s real.
One gives in, one resolves, one is casual, and one is peaceful. For Aquarius males, the most important thing is to live up to life, to be happy; for Aquarius females, the most important thing is life, to be grateful for what they have around them. Aquarius males are more unrestrained, while Aquarius females are more knowledgeable.
About Love
Aquarius females want eternity, while males focus on the present
If an Aquarius likes you, he/she will silently tolerate your emotions and take care of you proactively. Once they’re sure you also like them, things will naturally progress.
But once in a relationship, they can be quite, not naturally inclined to give, needing your response and doting. Aquarius males like warm, straightforward girls, while Aquarius females prefer gentlemen with a strong sense of security.
Aquarius males pursue the present, not believing or caring about forever. To them, this moment’s interaction is what’s most important. The so-called sense of novelty and excitement, if you criticize him for being fickle, he will silently feel wronged in his heart, undervaluing you and not explaining.
In their view, people have the freedom to love, and emotions are a romantic thing. If you don’t understand, it’s because you lack romance. Aquarius doesn’t have a concept of emotional infidelity or guilt, forming a sharp contrast withconstellations like Leo. But they won’t have two boats at the same time; their values are a matter of principle.
Aquarius females pursue security and permanence, the slow companionship of running water. Once they have a boyfriend, they become protective, critical of other, and won’t easily give up a relationship.
Because the partners Aquarius females like and choose are reliable and warm, they hate superficial people and avoid them. Continuous, unconditional care is not difficult to pursue an Aquarius female.
When strikes
Aquarius females step back to observe, while males silently bear the silence
It’s hard to avoid cold wars when you’re with Aquarius. But actually, Aquarius’s cold treatment isn’t about sulking or deliberately creating distance; this is a common misconception. When there’s a conflict, they’ll naturally want to calm down first.
Aquarius is smart and sensible, even when angry, they remain calm. They don’t want to hurt their feelings with harsh words, as that wouldn’t be worth it. Aquarius’s idealism can’t withstand many cracks. When reasoning is ineffective, they’ll resort to cold treatment.
The more an Aquarius male cares about you, the more he feels during a conflict. This sense of grievance, due to pride, won’t be expressed, so when an Aquarius male is silent and cold, he’s digesting his emotions.
This is what he feels is the right thing to do at the moment. Whether it’s a deduction in points happens after the emotion has passed, so the timing of making up is crucial, most appropriate when the emotion has passed but not yet calm.
Aquarius females, as mentioned earlier, keep their emotions and thoughts separate. So, anger is just a physiological reaction to them, which they can digest on their own. Cold treatment is just a current choice, a means.
If you feel guilty and try to comfort her, she’ll give you a chance and educate you a bit. If you can’t get over it, she’ll take the initiative to make up. At this point, everyone is calm, and you might even feel a bit moved, though you’ll also be a little nervous. That’s just how clever Aquarius females are. Aquarius females won’t easily think of breaking up unless it’s a matter of principle.
Bottom line is limitless
Aquarius females stay put, while males let bygones be bygones
In any relationship, Aquarius doesn’t force things. Loss and regret are just a seasoning in life.
Aquarius is not suitable for stubborn people. If you want to be friends or lovers with them, you need to recognize and adhere to the same beliefs. Those who can’t understand this attitude towards life can only accompany each other for a while.
Aquarius is also a responsibleconstellation. Aquarius males will hold the chalk and modify their circle of life within their control; Aquarius females will follow nature and strive to embrace more missions and gifts. It’s definitely not suitable for them to force things.
Muttering under my breath
Actually, the core traits of aconstellation are the same for both males and females. It’s just that the different thinking habits of the genders, the guiding logic behind our actions (i.e., theconstellation traits), will lead to different handling modes, hence the differences.
Facing social pressure, gender issues are already mixed with many complex factors. One choice, a female might persist, while a male might give up.
As the trajectory of growth changes, the thoughts and ways of seeing the world of the sameconstellation males and females show differences.
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