Okay, so I’ve been crushing on this Aquarius woman for a while now, and let me tell you, figuring her out has been like trying to solve a Rubik’s Cube blindfolded. They’re known for being independent and a bit aloof, so I really wanted to get to the bottom of whether she liked me back. I decided to go full-on detective mode and document everything.
Phase 1: The Observation Stage
First, I just started paying super close attention to how she acted around me. I mean, really paying attention, not just casual glances.
- Did she initiate conversations? Sometimes she did, sometimes she didn’t. Classic Aquarius, keeping me on my toes! It wasn’t always about deep stuff, sometimes just random observations or funny things she saw online.
- Eye contact? This one was tricky. She’s generally pretty friendly, so there was some eye contact, but I was looking for that lingering gaze. I noticed that sometimes, when we were talking in a group, her eyes would flick to me more often, even if I wasn’t the one speaking. That felt…promising.
- Body language. Was she leaning in when we talked? Did she ever subtly mirror my posture? I noticed a few times when we were chatting one-on-one, she’d lean slightly towards me, especially if we were sharing a laugh. Also, on a couple of occasions, I caught her fiddling with her hair or jewelry when I was talking – a possible sign of nervousness (or just fidgeting, who knows!).
- Did she remember things I told her? I dropped a casual comment about my favorite band once, and a week later, she brought them up in conversation. That definitely made me think she was paying attention.
Phase 2: The Interaction Test
Alright, observation is good, but I needed to see how she reacted to me specifically. I’m not about playing games, but I definitely tweaked my approach a little.
- I started sharing more about myself. Not in an over-the-top, TMI way, but opening up a bit about my passions and quirks. I wanted to see if she reciprocated, if she seemed genuinely interested in getting to know the real me. She did! She asked follow-up questions and even shared some personal things about herself, too.
- I tested the waters with some light teasing. Nothing mean, of course, just playful banter. She responded well to it! She’d dish it right back, and there was a definite sparkle in her eyes when we were going back and forth.
- I offered to help her with something. She mentioned she was struggling with a project, so I offered my assistance. She accepted, and we ended up working on it together. It was a great chance to see how we interacted in a more collaborative setting. It went really smoothly, and we actually had a lot of fun.
Phase 3: The “Friend Zone” Check
Okay, this was the scary part. Was she just being friendly? I needed to figure out if there was potential for something more.
- I initiated some one-on-one hangouts. Not “dates” per se, but casual things like grabbing coffee or checking out a local event. She said yes! That was huge.
- During these hangouts, I paid attention to the vibe. Was it easy and comfortable? Did the conversation flow naturally? Was there any…flirting? Yes, yes, and…yes! The conversation was great, we laughed a lot, and there were definitely some moments of prolonged eye contact and playful touching.
The Verdict (For Now!)
Based on my highly scientific and totally not-at-all-biased research, I think she does like me! At the very least, she enjoys my company and seems interested in getting to know me better. I wouldn’t initiate a deep talk, but I began to feel that she might like me more than a friend. The signs are there, but it’s still early days. I’m going to continue to build our connection, be myself, and see where things go. The key with an Aquarius, I’ve learned, is to give them space, respect their independence, and let things unfold naturally. Wish me luck!
