Okay, here’s my blog post about my experience with Aries in the 7th House:
So, I’ve been diving deep into astrology lately, trying to figure out, you know, myself. And one thing that really popped out was my Aries in the 7th house placement. I was like, “Okay, what’s that all about?”
First, I googled it, like anybody else would. Found tons of stuff, some of it made sense, some of it… not so much. Lots of talk about “partnerships” and “balance” and “fiery energy.” All very vague.
My Own Experiment
Then I thought, “Screw it, let’s see what this actually means in my life.”
So I took some notes on my relationship patterns, I started to observe.
- I realized I’m super drawn to people who are, well, independent. Strong-willed. Even a little rebellious. Like, total opposite of the “submissive” stereotype I read somewhere.
- I also noticed I get bored… easily. If there’s no spark, no challenge, I’m just… out. I need someone who can keep up, who can push back.
- I noticed, when conflict happen, I tend to be very direct. I hate passive-aggressiveness.
It was like a lightbulb went off. It wasn’t about being “aggressive” in relationships, it was about needing that energy, that drive. I started to own that part of myself more. I communicated my needs more clearly (still working on that, tbh!). I stopped feeling guilty for wanting excitement and passion.
I also started to pay attention to the “balance” thing. The 7th house is traditionally ruled by Libra, all about harmony and compromise. So, it’s not just about my Aries fire. I realized I had to find a way to bring that energy without, you know, bulldozing everyone around me.
It’s still a work in progress, for sure. But understanding this placement has helped me understand my relationship patterns way better. It’s like, I finally have a roadmap for navigating this part of my life. I’m still figuring it all out, but it’s been a pretty eye-opening journey so far!
