Well, let me tell you, this Chiron in Pisces thing, it’s a mess, I tell ya.
Chiron, what is that? Some say it is where you hurt the most. Some fancy folks call it “wounded healer”. Sounds like a load of bull to me. But they say it’s ’bout where you got hurt bad, maybe even in a past life, who knows with these things.
Chiron in Pisces
Pisces, that’s a fish, right? My grandson, he’s into all this star stuff. Says it got to do with feelings and being all soft and mushy inside. So, you put this hurtin’ Chiron with that soft Pisces, and what you got? A whole lotta tears, I reckon. And lots of “oh, poor me!”
They say when you got Chiron in Pisces, you feel things real deep. Like, too deep. You feel everyone else’s pain, too. It’s like you’re a sponge, soakin’ up all the sadness in the world. You wanna help everybody, fix everything. But you can’t. Nobody can.
- You give and you give, and what do you get? Nothing.
- People take advantage, that’s what.
- They see you’re all soft and kind, and they walk all over you.
My neighbor, she’s got this. Always cryin’ about somethin’. Her dog died, her husband yelled at her, the price of eggs went up. Everything’s a tragedy. She gives all her time to helping folks at the church, baking cakes, visiting the sick. And what’s it get her? A whole lotta headaches and a bunch of people who don’t even say thank you.
How you deal with this Chiron in Pisces thing?
Well, I ain’t no expert, but it seems to me, you gotta learn to say no. You gotta put up some walls. You can’t be a doormat for the whole world.
- You gotta take care of yourself first.
- If your cup is empty, you got nothing to give anyone else.
- Fill up your own cup, I say.
Maybe that means saying no to that extra church meeting. Maybe it means tellin’ your friend you can’t listen to her complain for the hundredth time. Maybe it means taking a long bath and not feelin’ guilty about it.
And forgiveness, that’s a big one. You gotta forgive folks who hurt you. Not for them, but for you. Holdin’ onto anger is like carrying a hot coal. It burns you, not them.
Learning from Chiron
This Chiron thing, it’s there to teach you somethin’. It’s like a splinter in your finger. It hurts like the dickens, but if you don’t get it out, it’s gonna fester and get worse. So, you gotta dig it out, even if it hurts. And then you gotta clean the wound and let it heal.
Chiron in Pisces, it’s showing you where you’re weak, where you’re vulnerable. It’s tellin’ you that you gotta be stronger, gotta learn to protect yourself. It’s not about being mean, it’s about being smart.
You can still be kind, you can still be helpful. But you gotta do it from a place of strength, not weakness. You gotta know your limits. You gotta know when to say “enough is enough”.
The Seventh House, whatever that is
My grandson, he keeps going on about houses, too. Says if you got this Chiron in Pisces in your 7th house, it’s all about relationships. I guess it means you look for the hurt in other people and try to fix it. You wanna make everybody happy, even if it means sacrificing yourself. Don’t do that.
You can’t fix other people. You can only fix yourself. And that’s hard enough, believe you me. Focus on your own life, your own happiness. That’s the best way to help others, is to be a good example. Show ’em how to be strong, how to be happy. Don’t let them drag you down into their misery.
Grow with Chiron
Life’s too short to be wallowing in sadness, I always say. You gotta find the joy, even in the little things. A sunny day, a good cup of coffee, a laugh with a friend. That’s what it’s all about.
So, this Chiron in Pisces, it might be a pain in the rear, but it can also be a blessin’. It can teach you how to be a better person, a stronger person. It can teach you how to love yourself, and that’s the most important thing of all.
You got this, I know you do. Just remember to be kind to yourself, set some boundaries, and don’t let nobody walk all over you. And if you need a shoulder to cry on, well, you know where to find me. Just don’t expect me to bake you a cake.
Chiron is like a sign, showin’ you where you messed up before, a long time ago. It also can show you how to make things better, for you and for others, too.
I may not understand all that star signs and planets stuff. But I know one thing for sure, we all got our hurts. And we all gotta learn how to heal them. This Chiron in Pisces, it’s just one way of lookin’ at it, I guess. But the important thing is to keep on livin’, keep on learnin’, and keep on lovin’. That’s what life’s all about, ain’t it?
