So, I’ve been seeing this Capricorn guy, and things got me wondering if he’s actually into me or just being his usual, reserved self. I mean, these Capricorn guys, they’re not exactly an open book, right? So I started to think about, I should figure out how to tell if he really likes me.
First off, I paid more attention to our texts. They say Capricorn men are not really into texting a lot, and I found that’s true. He isn’t the type to send “good morning” texts every day or chat about nothing. But when he does reply, it’s consistent. It’s like, he won’t leave you hanging. I noticed he started to reply more frequently, so that’s a good start, I guess. Also I tried to ask him for help once to see if he was just being polite, or there was more to it. He actually spent a good chunk of time helping me out. He didn’t rush, didn’t make it seem like it was a bother. That’s when I thought, “Okay, maybe there’s something more here.”
Then, I started observing how much time he wanted to spend with me. Capricorns are known to value quality time, and I saw he was making an effort. It wasn’t just about meeting up; he started including me in his plans, like going to this art exhibit he knew I’d love or just chilling at a cafe. And during these times, he wasn’t glued to his phone or looking around. He was present, engaged, you know? One time, we were at this coffee shop, and he started talking about his family and some personal stuff. I read somewhere that if a Capricorn man opens up about his personal life, that’s a big deal.
I also tried to show him I care, in small ways. Like, I remembered he mentioned this book he wanted to read, so I got it for him. I thought, if I do something thoughtful, it might mean something to him. It wasn’t anything grand, but his reaction was pretty telling. He seemed genuinely touched, and he thanked me with this big smile. It wasn’t just a polite “thank you.” It felt like he really appreciated the gesture.
And I showed interest in his hobbies, even though I knew nothing about it. I started asking questions and showing that I was genuinely interested in what he was saying. I figured, showing enthusiasm for his passions might make him feel appreciated. He seemed to like that I was making an effort to understand his world. He started explaining things to me without me even asking, which was pretty cool. One day I asked him to join me for a weekend hike, something I enjoy. He accepted my invitation without hesitation. I know it might not mean much, but I feel happy because I know he doesn’t like outdoor activities.
Here’s what I did:
- Checked our texting patterns – I looked for consistency rather than frequency.
- Asked for help – I tested his willingness to go out of his way for me.
- Observed our time together – I checked if he was making an effort to include me in his plans.
- Showed small gestures of affection – I did thoughtful things to show I care.
- Engaged with his interests – I showed enthusiasm for his hobbies.
It’s still early days, but all these little things are adding up. I feel like he’s starting to show his feelings in his own Capricorn way—subtle, steady, but definitely there. It’s not about grand gestures, but more about consistent, thoughtful actions. And honestly, I’m starting to appreciate this slow, steady approach. It feels more genuine, you know?
