Okay, so, I’ve been seeing this Virgo guy for a while now, and I gotta say, it’s been a bit of a puzzle trying to figure out if he’s really into me or not. Virgo men, am I right? They’re not exactly the most open book in the library. I started to notice it and wonder if my feeling is real or not.
First off, I did some digging online, you know, the usual Googling and reading through forums. I found out that these guys are supposedly all about logic and thinking things through—like, way overthinking. They are also shy and don’t like to show their feeling. Made sense, given what I’d seen so far. Then, it hit me, he actually seems pretty relaxed and happy whenever we’re together. Like, he’s not putting on a front or anything. He’s just genuinely enjoying himself. That’s a big deal because I read somewhere that they don’t open up easily. So that was my first clue, I guess.
He is testing me?
Then there’s the whole “he’s always around” thing. At first, I thought maybe it was just a coincidence, but it kept happening. He’d pop up at the coffee shop I frequent, or we’d bump into each other at the park. I thought he might have his own business to do there. It was like he was low-key making an effort to be in my orbit. Considering how reserved Virgos are supposed to be, this felt significant. It’s like when I am interested in someone I will always try to find ways to be around them. And I did feel the same way from him.
But here’s where it got tricky. I started noticing these little “tests.” Like, he’d ask me these random, hypothetical questions—”What would you do if…?” type of stuff. Or he’d kind of push my buttons a little, just to see how I’d react. At first, I was like, “What’s with the mind games?” But then I remembered reading that they do this to gauge your interest and commitment. Makes sense. They try to know if this girl is really into me or not.
And sometimes, he’d play it cool, you know? Like, he’d be all distant and aloof for a bit. Classic “hard to get” move. But apparently, that’s also a way for them to see how dedicated you are. So, I tried not to get too thrown off by it. I stayed true with my feeling.
The other thing I picked up from my online research was that these guys are big on honesty, availability, and, get this, cleanliness. So, I made sure to always be upfront with him, you know, no beating around the bush. And I made time for him, showing him that I was available and interested in spending time together. Although he didn’t mention about cleanliness, I also did my best to make sure I am clean in front of him. Just in case.
What have I done?
So, yeah, it’s been a bit of a rollercoaster trying to decode this Virgo guy. But paying attention to these little signs—his happiness around me, always being around, the little tests, and his occasional aloofness—I started to feel like maybe, just maybe, he’s into me. It’s like he has his own way to show his interest to someone.
I kept doing all of that for some time, just to make sure my feeling is right. Eventually, my assumption was proved to be true. Now, we are very close to each other and open up very easily. I am happy that I made the right move, otherwise I might lose this good guy.
It’s not easy, but hey, nothing worth having comes easy, right? And with a Virgo guy, you gotta be patient and observant. They might not shout their feelings from the rooftops, but they definitely show them in their own subtle, thoughtful way.
