Okay, so, about Virgo men and their “tests” – it’s been quite a journey figuring this out. I’ve been seeing this guy, a Virgo, and let me tell you, it’s like trying to solve a puzzle sometimes. I started noticing a pattern, and it got me thinking, “Is he testing me, or is this just how he is?”
First off, I observed him throwing these little curveballs my way. Not in a bad way, but more like he was trying to see how I’d react. Like, he asked me a bunch of questions about my preferences, my past, even my future plans. It felt like an interview at times! But I went along with it, answering honestly, because why not? I’m an open book, mostly.
Then, there was this phase where he became a bit distant. Not ghosting-level distant, but just enough to make me wonder, “Hmm, is he losing interest?” It felt like he was playing hard to get, maybe to see if I’d chase him or just give up. I’m not really into games, so I just continued being myself – reaching out sometimes, giving him space other times.
- I focused on being a good listener.
- I noticed he paid attention to the smallest details, so I started doing the same.
- Remembering his coffee order, asking about his day, stuff like that.
I also tried to show him that I’m supportive. When he talked about his work or his passions, I was genuinely interested. I asked questions, offered encouragement, and just tried to be there for him. It wasn’t about proving anything, but more about showing that I care.
Here’s where it gets interesting. He started opening up more after a while. It was like those “tests” were his way of figuring out if I was worth letting in. And as I kept being genuine and consistent, he began to trust me more. We started having deeper conversations, and he showed a side of him that was really endearing.
So, after all this, my takeaway is that Virgo men might test you, but it’s not necessarily about playing games. It seems like they’re just trying to figure you out, to see if you’re someone they can trust and be themselves with. It’s like they have these walls up, and they want to make sure you’re worth taking them down for.
My Advice?
- Be patient.
- Be yourself.
- And don’t be afraid to show that you care.
It’s not about passing or failing these “tests.” It’s about building a connection based on mutual respect and understanding. At least, that’s what I’ve learned from my experience. It’s been a bit of a rollercoaster, but hey, relationships are all about learning and growing together, right?
