So, I’ve been dating this Aries guy, and it’s been, well, a rollercoaster. You know how they say Aries men like to test you? It’s true, and I’ve got the stories to prove it. From the get-go, this guy has been throwing challenges my way, and I had to figure out how to navigate them. Here’s how it all went down.
The First Test: Independence
At first, he started by testing my independence. One time, we had planned a date, and literally hours before, he texted me saying something came up. He did this a few times. It was annoying, yes, but I got the message loud and clear. He wanted to see if I had my own life, if I could roll with the punches. I didn’t freak out or bombard him with calls. Instead, I made other plans, went out with my friends, and had a blast. When he saw that I wasn’t just sitting around waiting for him, it seemed like he actually respected me more.
Playing Hard to Get
Then, he moved on to playing hard to get. Oh boy, this was a classic. He’d be all over me one day, super attentive, and then poof, he’d go silent. Disappear for days. Initially, I was confused and, honestly, a bit hurt. I thought I was doing something wrong. But then I realized, this is just another test. I matched his energy. I didn’t chase him. I continued living my life, posting my adventures, and basically showing him that I wasn’t going to put my life on hold for him. Slowly, he started coming around more consistently.
The Honesty Test
The honesty test was a big one. He would ask me some really direct, sometimes uncomfortable questions. Like, out of nowhere, he’d ask my opinion on something controversial or about my past relationships. It felt like he was trying to catch me in a lie or see if I’d sugarcoat things. I decided to be brutally honest, even when I knew it might not be what he wanted to hear. It was tough, but it paid off. He appreciated that I was straightforward and didn’t play games with the truth.
Showing My Strength
Aries men are drawn to strength, so that was the next hurdle. He needed to see that I was strong, not just physically, but mentally and emotionally too. I started standing up for myself more, not just with him, but in all areas of my life. I shared my achievements with him, showed him that I could handle tough situations without falling apart. I think seeing my confidence and resilience really impressed him. There was a day when we had a minor disagreement. Instead of backing down, I stood my ground. I calmly explained my point, held firm and then I could see him kind of respect me. I think that made him feel like he had found an equal.
The Jealousy Game
And then there was the jealousy game. He would sometimes mention other women, not in a way that was overtly flirtatious, but enough to see if I’d get jealous. At first, I did get a bit insecure, but then I remembered all the other tests. I stayed cool, didn’t show any jealousy, and even encouraged him to have a good time if he was talking about going out with friends. I wanted him to see that I trusted him and wasn’t the jealous type. My coolness under pressure definitely worked in my favor.
Keeping Up with Him
Aries are known for their energy and spontaneity. Keeping up with him was a test in itself. He loved to do things on a whim, last-minute plans, and adventurous outings. I made an effort to match his energy, to be spontaneous, and to say yes to new experiences. This not only showed him that I was game for anything but also made our time together more exciting. I planned a surprise weekend trip. Just packed our bags and off we went. He loved the adventure and the fact that I could be so spontaneous.
The Final Test: Loyalty
The final test, and maybe the most important one, was about loyalty. He wanted to see if I was in this for real, if I was someone he could truly rely on. I made sure to always have his back, to be there for him when he needed me, and to be consistent in my actions and words. It wasn’t about grand gestures, but the small, everyday things that showed him I was trustworthy and loyal. One time, he was going through a rough patch with work, and I was there to support him. I listened, offered advice, and just reminded him of his strengths. Seeing my unwavering support during a tough time really solidified our bond.
So yeah, dating an Aries man is like navigating a minefield of tests. But if you’re strong, independent, honest, and loyal, you’ll not only pass his tests but also earn his respect and maybe even his heart. It’s a wild ride, but hey, what’s life without a little adventure, right?
