Okay, so, I’ve been doing this thing lately, trying to, you know, catch the eye of this Virgo guy. It’s been a ride, let me tell you. I heard they’re kinda picky, so I thought, why not share what I’ve been up to? Maybe it’ll help someone else out there.
First off, I started by, like, really observing him. I needed to know his interests. Not in a creepy way, of course, just, you know, paying attention. This guy is super into his routine. Every day, same coffee shop, same order. So, I started showing up there too. Not every day, ’cause that’s too obvious, but often enough that he’d start to notice me.
Getting Myself Together
Then, there’s the whole looking good part. I mean, I always try to look decent, but I kicked it up a notch. I started wearing clothes that I knew looked good on me, you know, the ones that make you feel confident. And makeup, I spent some time watching YouTube tutorials. Nothing too crazy, just enough to enhance what I’ve got. I even got a new haircut. It’s amazing what a good hair day can do for your confidence.
- Dressing up: Not over the top, just neat and stylish.
- Makeup: Subtle but effective.
- New haircut: A fresh look can work wonders.
Show, Don’t Just Tell
Virgos are all about that organized life, right? So, I started showing off my own organizational skills. When we’d chat, I’d casually mention how I meal prep for the week or how I’ve color-coded my planner. I even reorganized my bag once when he was around, just to show how I like things in order. I think it impressed him, or at least, he seemed intrigued.
Being Genuine
The most important thing I realized is that you gotta be real. Virgos can spot a fake from a mile away. So, I made sure to be myself. I shared my real thoughts, my actual hobbies, and my genuine reactions. I didn’t pretend to like something just because he did. I think that’s what really got his attention – that I wasn’t trying to be someone I’m not. I make sure that I don’t speak without thinking, and I don’t act without a plan. They really like it when you have a plan.
The Outcome
So, did it work? Well, we’re going on a date this weekend. He asked me! I’m pretty sure all this effort played a part in it. It wasn’t just about attracting him; it was also about becoming a better version of myself. I feel more confident, more organized, and more in tune with what I want. So, I guess it’s a win-win, right?
If you’re trying to attract a Virgo, or anyone, really, my advice is to be yourself, but also, don’t be afraid to step up your game. Show them the best version of you, not a made-up version. And who knows, you might just surprise yourself in the process.