Okay, so, I’ve been trying to figure out how to win over this Scorpio guy. It’s been a real adventure, let me tell you.
First Steps
First, I started by just being myself, but like, a more confident version. I made sure to stand tall, look him in the eyes when we talked, and I definitely didn’t shy away from sharing my thoughts and feelings. You know, Scorpios are supposed to like deep connections, so I figured being open was the way to go. I pushed myself to talk about some pretty personal stuff and tried to get him to open up too. It wasn’t easy, but I think it showed him I wasn’t afraid of getting real.
Keeping it Mysterious
But here’s the thing, I also tried to keep a little bit of mystery about myself. I heard somewhere that Scorpios like a puzzle. So, I would drop hints about things I was doing or interested in, but I wouldn’t give away all the details right away. I wanted him to keep guessing, you know? Make him a little curious.
Showing Independence
I also made a point to show him that I have my own life. I’d talk about my hobbies, my friends, my goals. I wanted him to see that I wasn’t just waiting around for him. I think having your own thing going on is attractive to anyone, but especially to Scorpios. They seem to like people who are independent and have their own passions.
Being Honest
One thing I definitely avoided was hiding things from him. I heard that can make them suspicious. So, I was always upfront about what I was doing, who I was with, and how I was feeling. Even when it was a little uncomfortable, I figured honesty was the best policy. It’s like they can sense when you’re not being real, and that’s a major turn-off.
- Stood tall and maintained eye contact
- Opened up about my feelings and encouraged him to do the same
- Kept a bit of mystery about myself
- Showed him I had my own life and interests
- Was always honest and open, even when it was tough
It’s been a process, and I’m still not entirely sure where things are headed. But I feel like I’ve learned a lot about Scorpios and about myself along the way. It’s definitely not for the faint of heart, but if you’re willing to put in the effort, it can be a pretty rewarding experience. At the very least, I now know how to have some seriously intense conversations!
