Okay, so I had this whole thing with my Capricorn ex, and let me tell you, it was a journey trying to get him back. Here’s how it all went down.
First off, I had to take a step back and really look at the situation. Why did we break up in the first place? What went wrong? I spent some time thinking about all of that, and it was a bit of a reality check, you know?
Once I had a clearer picture, I knew I couldn’t just rush back in. Capricorns, they’re not about that fast-paced life. They like to take their sweet time, especially when it comes to relationships. So, I decided to give him some space. I didn’t bombard him with texts or calls. I just let him be, giving him the time he needed to process everything.
After a while, I started to rebuild communication, but very, very slowly. I’m talking about casual, light-hearted stuff. No pressure, no demands. Just friendly, “Hey, how’s it going?” kind of messages. It was tough, I’m not gonna lie. I wanted to pour my heart out, but I knew that wasn’t going to work with him.
- Don’t push him with what you want. This was the big thing that made a change. I didn’t go in there asking to get back, he was way to smart for that. I acted chill and that helped keep the conversation going.
- Think about things and talk to him slowly. I made sure that every time I talked to him I had something to say. I did not waste time with small talk, Capricorns do not like that.
Then came the waiting game. It felt like forever, to be honest. But I knew that patience was key. I had to show him that I was serious, that I was in it for the long haul. I focused on myself during this time, working on my own stuff, becoming a better version of myself. I started to take care of myself better so that if he came back he could see that I had changed.
Slowly but surely, he started to open up more. We started talking more frequently, and it felt like we were really connecting again. I made sure to listen to him, to really understand where he was coming from. I wanted him to know that I valued his feelings and his thoughts. I really listened to him when he started talking to me again.
Finally, after what seemed like ages, we started to talk about us, about our relationship. We had some really deep, meaningful conversations. It wasn’t easy, but we were both committed to making it work this time around. I knew that this was my chance to get things right.
And guess what? We got back together. It wasn’t a quick fix, and it took a lot of effort from both of us. But it was worth it. We learned a lot about ourselves and each other through this whole process. This stuff really works, you just have to be willing to try.
Remember This Stuff
If you’re trying to get your Capricorn man back, just remember to be patient, be understanding, and be mature. Give him space, rebuild communication slowly, and show him that you’re willing to put in the work. It’s not going to be easy, but if you really care about him, it’s worth a shot.
