Okay, so, I’ve been trying to catch this Capricorn guy’s eye for a while now. You know, the strong, silent type? Yeah, that’s him. It’s been a bit of a project, but I think I’ve finally cracked the code. Here’s how it all went down.
First off, I noticed him at this work thing. Super serious, all business. He seemed, like, totally unapproachable. But I’m not one to back down from a challenge, you know?
Phase 1: Laying the Groundwork
- Showed I’m reliable: I made sure to always be on time, prepared for meetings, you know, the whole nine yards. Capricorns dig that stuff, apparently. They like people who have their act together.
- Worked on my own stuff: I didn’t just, like, stare at him all day. I focused on my own projects, got some good results, and even got a little shout-out from the boss. That seemed to get his attention a bit. He was paying attention to who was excelling.
- Kept it professional: No cheesy pickup lines or obvious flirting. I treated him with respect, just like I would any other colleague. I think he appreciated that I wasn’t all over him from the get-go.
Phase 2: Making Contact
- Started small: Casual “good mornings,” holding the door, that kind of thing. Just little things to show I was friendly and, well, normal.
- Asked for his input: I found a project we were both kinda involved in and asked for his opinion on something. He actually gave me some really solid advice. Turns out, he’s pretty smart. Who knew?
- Listened more than I talked: When we did chat, I made sure to actually listen to what he was saying. He seemed to open up a bit more when he realized I was genuinely interested in his thoughts. And I asked him questions about what he was interested in.
Phase 3: Building a Connection
- Found common ground: Turns out, we both like hiking! Who would’ve guessed? We started talking about our favorite trails, and he even suggested a few I should check out.
- Kept things low-key: No pressure, no grand gestures. Just invited him to grab coffee after work one day to talk more about that project we were working on. He said yes!
- Showed him my silly side: During our coffee “date,” I let my guard down a little, cracked a few jokes, even made fun of myself a bit. He actually laughed! A real, genuine laugh. That was a good sign.
And then, it happened. He asked me if I wanted to go hiking that weekend. Me! I couldn’t believe it! We went, we had a blast, and now we’re, well, we’re seeing each other. It’s still early days, but it’s going really well. It took a lot of hard work and patience, but it was so worth it!
So, yeah, that’s my story. It wasn’t easy, but I did it. If you’re trying to get a Capricorn man to chase you, just remember: be patient, be yourself, and show him you’re someone worth chasing. You got this!
