Okay, so, about getting an Aquarius man to chase you… I’ve been there, done that, and let me tell you, it’s a bit of a rollercoaster. But a fun one! I started this whole thing because my friend, let’s call her Sarah, was totally into this Aquarius guy, Mark. And she was like, “Help me!” So, I jumped in, ready to experiment and document everything.
First off, I hit up all my single friends who had dated Aquarius men. I gathered all their experiences, trying to find patterns. We had these long chat sessions, dissecting every text, every date, every little thing. We even created a color-coded spreadsheet. Yeah, we went all in.
Phase One: Be Friends
- Become friends: This was our starting line. I told Sarah to just be friends with Mark, no pressure.
- Join activities: I started organizing group hangouts, like movie nights and game sessions. Something chill, you know?
- Talk, a lot: We made sure Sarah and Mark had plenty of chances to talk, about everything and nothing.
Then, I started noticing things. Like, Mark would light up when Sarah talked about her projects. So, I pushed her to share more. I’d say, “Hey, tell Mark about that cool art thing you’re doing.”
Phase Two: Show Your Unique Side
- Highlight your uniqueness: I told Sarah to really show off what makes her, her. She started wearing these quirky outfits she loves.
- Share your passions: Sarah’s super into astronomy, so I got her to talk about it. Non-stop. Turns out, Mark was fascinated.
- Be independent: I made sure Sarah didn’t drop everything for Mark. She kept up with her own life, her friends, her hobbies.
I kept a journal of all this. Every day, I would write down what Sarah did, how Mark reacted. I started seeing a shift. He was initiating conversations more, asking about her day, her thoughts on stuff.
Phase Three: A Little Distance
- Create some space: This was tricky. I told Sarah to be a bit less available. Not rude, just busy.
- Be mysterious: We practiced this. Sarah would hint at plans but not give all the details. Made Mark curious.
- Let him come to you: I told Sarah to let Mark reach out first more often. It worked. He started texting first more often.
The journal entries during this phase were interesting. Mark’s messages got more frequent. He was asking more questions, showing genuine interest.
Phase Four: Seal the Deal
- Show appreciation: When Mark did chase, I told Sarah to really appreciate it. A simple “I love that you did that” goes a long way.
- Be yourself, always: Through all this, I kept reminding Sarah to just be herself. No games, just real her.
- Enjoy the chase: I told Sarah to enjoy the process, not just the outcome. It’s about the journey, right?
And guess what? It worked. Mark started chasing Sarah. He was planning dates, initiating conversations, all that jazz. My journal’s last entry on this? “Mission accomplished.” We were all celebrating, like we’d just cracked some secret code. It was a wild ride, but we did it. And hey, I got a ton of content for my blog out of it. Win-win!
