Okay, so, things with my Capricorn ex got messy, and I messed up big time. I really wanted him back, so I started digging around, trying to figure out how to fix things. Capricorns are known for being, well, a bit stubborn, so I knew it wouldn’t be easy.
First things first, I gave him space. I stopped calling, stopped texting, just completely backed off. I remembered reading somewhere that Capricorns appreciate their alone time, and after a breakup, they need even more of it to process things. It was tough, but I resisted the urge to reach out.
While giving him space, I focused on myself. I started hitting the gym again, picked up some new hobbies, and spent more time with friends. Basically, I worked on becoming a better version of myself. I figured if he saw me thriving, it might make him reconsider things.
Then, after a few weeks, I casually reached out. Not a big dramatic “I miss you” text, but a simple “Hey, how are you doing?” kind of message. Just to show him I was still around, but not in a desperate way. We chatted a bit, kept it light and friendly.
- Gave him space and time.
- Focused on self-improvement.
- Reached out casually after a while.
- Kept things friendly and light.
Next, I started demonstrating the qualities that Capricorns value: ambition, stability, and responsibility. I talked about my career goals, how I was managing my finances, and some projects I was working on. I wanted him to see that I was serious about my life and had a plan.
Slowly but surely, we started spending more time together. We’d grab coffee, go for walks, just low-key stuff. During these hangouts, I made sure to be a good listener, showing genuine interest in what he had to say. Capricorns appreciate being heard and understood.
Finally, I addressed the issues that caused our breakup in the first place. I apologized sincerely for my mistakes and explained how I had changed and what I had learned. It wasn’t about making excuses, but about showing him that I was committed to making things work this time around.
The Outcome
It took time and effort, but eventually, we got back together. It wasn’t a fairytale ending, but a new beginning. We learned a lot from our time apart, and we’re both committed to making our relationship stronger this time. He told me that seeing how much I’d grown and how serious I was about us was what really made the difference. He felt like I had truly understood him and taken our relationship seriously. That’s what really sealed the deal.
