Okay, so, the Aries man. We broke up. It was messy, as breakups usually are. I was sad, he was… well, I’m not even sure what he was. He just went cold. So I started doing what any sensible person would do – I went down the internet rabbit hole. I read tons of stuff, and honestly, most of it was pretty useless.
But, I kept at it. I started piecing things together from different articles and posts. First thing I realized was that I had to give him space. Like, a lot of space. Aries guys, from what I gathered, need their freedom. So I did the hardest thing ever, I stopped calling. I stopped texting. I basically vanished from his world. That was tough, no lie.
After a week that felt like a year, I decided it was time to make a move. But not a big one. I remembered reading something about apologizing, even if you don’t think you did anything wrong. So, I crafted a short and simple message. Something like, “Hey, I’m sorry if I messed things up. I hope we’re cool.” Sent it. Waited. It was like waiting for an eternity, by the way.
- First Step: I gave him space.
- Second Step: I swallowed my pride and apologized.
He replied the next day! It was brief, but it was something. He said he needed time to think. Fine, more waiting. I figured, “Okay, I’ve opened the door, now I just have to be patient.” And patient I was. I focused on myself, went out with friends, binged some shows, you know, the usual stuff.
Then, about a week later, he reached out again. This time, he was more open. We started talking, slowly at first, then more and more. It was like we were getting to know each other all over again. During one of our conversations, I managed to calmly explain how I felt without making it all about blame. It was important that I say sorry to him. I said something along the lines of, “I realized I might have been a bit much sometimes, and I’m sorry for that.” I think that really helped.
Anyway, long story short, we started seeing each other again. It wasn’t all smooth sailing, but we were communicating better. I learned to give him his space, and he learned to be a bit more open with his feelings. We are better now. That’s it. That’s how I got my Aries man back.
Summary:
- Giving him space is key.
- A sincere apology, even if you don’t feel fully at fault, can work wonders.
- Patience is your best friend.
- Communicate clearly and calmly.
It wasn’t easy, but it was worth it. Just remember, every person and every relationship is different. What worked for me might not work for everyone, but I hope my experience gives you some ideas. Good luck, and don’t give up hope!
