So I’ve been seeing this Virgo guy for a while now, and things are… well, they’re interesting. I mean, I think I like him, but figuring out if he’s into me has been like trying to solve a damn Rubik’s Cube blindfolded. So, I did what any normal person would do: I turned into a full-blown detective.
First off, I started paying crazy attention to every little thing he said and did. Virgo men are supposed to be all about the details, right? So I listened like it was my job. Every conversation, every text, I analyzed the hell out of them. For example, I told him about a band I was into months ago, not expecting him to remember. And then, bam! He brought them up in a conversation later. Like, who does that? A guy who’s paying attention, that’s who.
My Observations on His Gazes
- Intense Eye Contact: When we talked, it wasn’t just a casual glance. It felt like he was looking straight into my soul. This wasn’t creepy, though, more like he was genuinely interested in what I had to say.
- Consistent Stares: Sometimes, I’d catch him looking at me when he thought I wasn’t paying attention. Not in a weird way, but like he was appreciating me or something. This was a pretty clear sign to me.
Picking Up on the Subtle Clues
I noticed he started doing little things for me. Like, if I mentioned I was tired, he’d offer to make me coffee. Or if I was having a bad day, he’d go out of his way to cheer me up. And it wasn’t just the big stuff; he remembered the small things too, like my favorite type of candy or that I hate it when people chew with their mouths open.
- Paying Attention to Details: He noticed when I got a haircut or wore something new, which was surprising since most guys don’t even realize I exist, let alone notice a haircut.
- Checking In: He started texting me more often, just to see how I was doing or to share something he thought I’d find interesting. It wasn’t overbearing, just a nice way of showing he cared.
Testing the Waters
Now, here’s where I got a bit sneaky. I started dropping hints about my feelings, you know, testing the waters. I wanted to see if he’d pick up on them or if he’d reciprocate. I’d tell him how much I enjoyed spending time with him or how much I appreciated his thoughtfulness. And guess what? He responded in kind. He started opening up more about his feelings too.
Realizing He’s Into Me
It became pretty clear that this Virgo guy was into me. He went from being this mysterious, hard-to-read dude to someone who was openly showing his affection. He’d hold my hand, give me these intense, soul-searching looks, and just be super present whenever we were together.
And the snuggly part? Oh boy. He wasn’t afraid to show physical affection. He’d always want to be close, whether it was holding hands, hugging, or just sitting close on the couch. And his compliments? They were genuine and specific, not just generic lines. He’d notice the little things about me and point them out, making me feel truly seen and appreciated.
So yeah, figuring out if a Virgo guy likes you isn’t a walk in the park. It takes patience, observation, and maybe a bit of detective work. But when you start seeing those signs – the attention to detail, the intense gazes, the thoughtful gestures, and the opening up? That’s when you know you’ve cracked the code. And trust me, it’s worth the effort.