So, I’ve been seeing this Aquarius guy, and things are, well, interesting. I mean, he’s not your typical, express-his-feelings-openly kind of guy. More like the keep-you-guessing, send-mixed-signals type. Naturally, I started wondering if he actually liked me or if I was just another friend. So, I did what any normal person would do – I turned into a detective.
My first move was to try and get him to open up a bit more. I started dropping hints, initiating conversations about random stuff, you name it. I even tried being super direct a couple of times, telling him about my day and how certain things made me feel. I thought, maybe if I showed him it’s okay to be vulnerable, he’d reciprocate. We had some pretty deep conversations, talking about everything from our favorite movies to our life goals. He seemed genuinely interested in what I had to say, asking follow-up questions and actually remembering details from our previous chats.
- He started making more of an effort to hang out.
- He seemed to enjoy our conversations.
- He’d do these little things, like bring me coffee, which was sweet.
Initially, it seemed to be working. He started to open up a bit more, sharing more about his life and his interests. One thing I noticed was that he really enjoyed our conversations. He would actively participate, ask questions, and even share his opinions on things. It wasn’t just me talking all the time, which was a relief. He’s not a big fan of socializing, he told me, so it felt special that he would spend hours talking to me. I also made sure to stay calm and rational during our conversations, even when we were discussing something emotional. I didn’t want to scare him off by being too intense.
He’s also a big movie buff, which I found out early on. We started having movie nights, and it became our thing. It was a great way to spend time together without the pressure of a formal date. Plus, it gave us something to talk about afterward.
Here is what I tried
- Direct Communication: I was straightforward about my feelings and observations.
- Initiating Conversations: I started conversations on various topics, showing interest in his life.
- Staying Calm and Rational: Even in emotional topics, I kept my cool.
- Movie Nights: I found a common interest to bond over, which was movies in his case.
Slowly but surely, he started showing he cared in his own way. He’d do these little gestures, like bringing me coffee or offering to help me with something. It wasn’t grand romantic gestures, but it was something. And honestly, it meant a lot to me. He also started making time for me, which was a big deal. He’s a pretty independent guy, always busy with his own projects, but he started carving out time in his schedule just to hang out with me. I think that’s when I really started to believe that maybe, just maybe, this Aquarius guy actually liked me.
I realized that Aquarius guys are not that hard to read, they just express themselves differently. They value their freedom and personal space, but they’ll make time for you if they’re interested. They might not be the most expressive people, but they show they care through their actions and the effort they put into the relationship.
