Alright, so I’ve been dating this Aquarius guy for a while now, and let me tell you, it’s been a bit of a rollercoaster trying to figure out if he’s really into me or not. These Aquarius men, they’re a different breed, I swear. You know, they’re all about their freedom and independence, but when they like someone, they do show it in their own quirky ways. Here’s what I did to try and understand things better.
First off, I started to pay attention to how much time he wanted to spend with me.
I noticed that he was making an effort to hang out more often. And it wasn’t just casual stuff, you know? We’d go out for dinners, watch movies, and even just chill at home. He started to call me almost every day, sometimes just to chat about nothing in particular. It felt like he genuinely enjoyed my company, which was a good sign.
Then, I watched how he acted around me.
- He was being all sweet and affectionate. Now, this wasn’t over-the-top PDA or anything, but he’d do these little things like hold my hand, give me random hugs, or just a pat on the back. It was subtle, but it was there, and it made me feel like he cared.
- He started opening up to me. This was a big one. Aquarius guys are usually pretty guarded, but he started sharing things with me – his thoughts, his feelings, even some personal stuff. One day he even started telling me about his biggest fears in life, and I remember thinking, wow, this is serious! It was like he was letting me into his inner world, which is not something they do easily.
I also tried to see if he was treating me like his best friend.
Aquarius men value friendship a lot, so this was key. And guess what? He did! We’d talk about everything and nothing, laugh at silly jokes, and just be ourselves around each other. He was always there to listen when I needed to vent, and he’d give me advice, even if it was just about what to order for takeout. He began calling me his “partner in crime” and would always invite me along to hang out with his friends.
Another thing I did was notice how much he joked around with me.
It’s like he was always trying to make me laugh, with all sorts of silly jokes and funny stories. It was his way of trying to impress me, I guess. And I found it kind of endearing, to be honest. He’d always say things like, “Did you see that? I made you smile!” or “One point for me!” It was all very playful and fun.
Lastly, I checked if he was interested in meeting my friends and family.
This was another big one because it meant he was thinking long-term. And he was! He asked about my family a lot and even suggested we all go out for dinner together. He was genuinely curious about the people who were important to me. When we finally did meet my folks, he was super charming and even helped my dad with some tech stuff he was struggling with. My mom later told me she really liked him, which was a huge relief!
So yeah, it took some time and observation, but I finally started to see the signs that this Aquarius man was into me. It wasn’t always obvious, but by paying attention to his actions and how he treated me, I could tell that he really cared. And that, my friends, is how I cracked the code of an Aquarius man’s heart. It’s not easy, but it’s definitely worth it when you see how genuine and kind they can be.
