Okay, so, I’ve been seeing this Aquarius guy, and let me tell you, it’s been a wild ride. I wanted to share my experience on how I managed to get his attention and keep him interested, for those who are also dealing with this, you can get some useful tips.
First off, I noticed he was different from other guys. He was always doing his own thing, super independent, and really into his hobbies. He also has a lot of friends. So, I figured I needed to be just as unique to catch his eye. I started by showing off my own quirky interests. I talked about my weird collection of vintage comic books and my passion for abstract painting. I didn’t want to follow his interests, I just want to be myself. You know, just being myself, not trying to be someone I’m not. I made sure to let him know that I have my own life and I’m not just going to drop everything for him.
One day, I invited him to this indie art exhibit. It was a bit out there, but I knew he’d appreciate the originality. He showed up, and we had a blast discussing the art and laughing at some of the more bizarre pieces. It was a great way to connect without being too serious. He also invited me to a party to meet his friends, and I accepted it with no hesitation.
I also made sure to give him space. I didn’t text him constantly or expect him to always be available. Instead, I focused on my own projects and friends. I think he liked that I wasn’t clingy. It showed him that I’m independent and have my own life, which is super attractive to an Aquarius. I didn’t make him feel that I need him in my life, I just want him in my life.
Then there’s the intellectual side. This guy loves to talk about ideas, so I brushed up on some interesting topics. We had these long, deep conversations about everything from philosophy to the latest tech trends. I think he appreciated that I could keep up with him and offer my own perspectives. Also, I learned about what he likes and dislikes, he doesn’t like someone who always agree with him, he likes to debate. So, during our conversation, I always stood up for my points.
Of course, we also had our fun, spontaneous moments. One time, we decided to go on a last-minute road trip to a nearby town just to explore. It was totally unplanned, and we ended up discovering some hidden gems. Those kinds of adventures really helped us bond.
- Be yourself: Show off your unique interests and personality.
- Stay independent: Have your own life and don’t be clingy.
- Engage intellectually: Have deep, meaningful conversations.
- Be spontaneous: Embrace unplanned adventures and fun moments.
In the end, it’s all about being genuine and giving him the freedom to be himself. If you can do that, you might just win over that Aquarius man. Hope my experience gives you some insights!
