Okay, so, I’ve been seeing this Virgo guy for a while, and I was really starting to wonder if he was actually into me or not. You know how it is, sometimes it’s just hard to tell, especially with Virgos. They’re kind of known for being a bit reserved, right? So I did what any modern woman would do: I hit up the internet for some answers.
First, I tried to pay close attention to how he acted around me. One article I read said that Virgos are all about “show, don’t tell.” I guess I had some ideas. They’re not the type to make grand romantic gestures, but they show they care through their actions. So I started watching him more closely. And you know what? He did start doing little things for me. Like, he’d always offer to help me carry stuff, or he’d go out of his way to do something he knew I liked. He even helped me organize my closet once, which, trust me, was a huge undertaking.
Then there was this other thing I noticed: he started being way more attentive and affectionate than usual. It wasn’t over the top, but it was definitely noticeable. He’d listen more intently when I talked, and he’d find excuses to touch me, like a hand on my arm or a playful nudge. It was subtle, but it was there. He even started texting me more often, just to check in and see how my day was going.
Here’s another big one: this man remembered everything I told him. Seriously, everything. I could mention something in passing, and he’d bring it up weeks later. Like, I told him once that I loved this obscure little coffee shop downtown, and a month later, he surprised me with a gift card to that exact place. That’s when I really started to think, “Okay, this guy might actually be into me.” He listened so carefully what I spoke to him, even something I forgot after a long time, he still remembered that.
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He once asked me to go out to dinner with him and some of his friends. I thought it was just a casual thing, but then I realized he was watching me closely the whole night. He wanted to see how I interacted with his friends, and if I fit into his social circle.
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On another occasion, he “accidentally” left his phone at my place. I think he was trying to see if I would snoop through it, which, of course, I didn’t. I knew that he might be testing my trust, and I didn’t want to give him any reason to doubt me. And I won’t do that!
He would do some test for me
I also read somewhere that Virgos like to get “snuggly” when they like someone. I didn’t really know what that meant at first, but then I started to notice it. He’d want to hold my hand more often, or he’d lean in close when we were talking. And he’d give me these intense stares, like he was really trying to connect with me. That stare really made me feel warm and fuzzy inside.
And then the last sign that I started to think about is that he was always there for me. Like, if I was having a bad day, he’d be the first person to offer to help. He’d listen to me vent, offer advice, or just be a shoulder to cry on. This is a huge one for me. Being there for someone, especially when they’re down, is a big deal. And he was always there, consistently.
So, yeah, after observing all these things, I’m pretty sure this Virgo guy is into me. It wasn’t easy to figure out at first, but once I started paying attention to his actions and how he treated me, it became pretty clear. It’s like all those articles said: Virgos show their love in subtle ways, but once you know what to look for, it’s hard to miss. And now we are planning for our wedding next month!
