Okay, so, I’ve been trying to figure out this whole “does she like me or not” thing with this Aries girl I know. It’s been a real head-scratcher, you know? Let me tell you about it.
First off, I noticed that Aries women are supposed to be all confident and straightforward, right? Like, they’re the type to just come out and say what they’re feeling. So I thought, “Great, this should be easy!” But with this girl, it wasn’t so obvious. She’s definitely confident, always leading the charge in group projects and stuff, but when it came to showing she liked me, it was a bit of a mystery.
I started paying attention to the little things. Like, when we’re hanging out, does she make an effort to spend time with me? At first, it was kind of hit or miss. Sometimes she’d be all about hanging out, other times not so much. It felt like I was always the one initiating things. Then I started noticing that if I didn’t text first, days would go by without a peep from her. It was honestly pretty frustrating.
Then I thought about physical touch. The internet said Aries are touchy-feely if they like you. So I tried to see if she’d find excuses to touch me, like a playful shove or a high-five that lasts a little too long. There were a few times when she did, but I wasn’t sure if it was just her being friendly or something more. It’s so hard to tell!
- I also tried to see if she’d compliment me or flirt. I mean, I’m not bad looking, so I expected some form of flirty comments or something if she is into me, but I’m still waiting for that to happen.
- I also read somewhere that if an Aries likes you, they’ll want to know everything about you and share their interests. So, I started talking about my hobbies, like my love for old-school video games. She listened, but it didn’t seem like she was super into it. And she didn’t really open up about her own interests either.
Another thing I tried was paying attention to her body language. I read that eye contact, open posture, and mirroring your movements are signs she’s interested. There were moments of intense eye contact, which felt like something, but then she’d be all closed off, arms crossed, not really engaging.
The Teasing Game
I even tried a bit of light teasing, as I heard Aries women enjoy that. I made a couple of jokes, but she just kind of stared at me blankly. It was awkward, to say the least. Maybe she just didn’t find me funny. Or maybe I’m not cut out for this whole reading-the-signs thing.
Honestly, the whole experience has been a rollercoaster. One minute I think she might be into me, the next I’m convinced she’s not interested at all. It’s like trying to solve a puzzle with half the pieces missing. I’m starting to think that maybe this “Aries are straightforward” thing is just a myth. Or maybe, just maybe, she’s not that into me. Either way, I’m still trying to figure it out. It’s a work in progress, I guess.
