Okay, so I’ve been on this whole “manifesting my dream guy” kick lately, and I decided to get super specific. I’m a Leo woman, through and through – love being the center of attention, passionate, a bit dramatic, you know the drill. And I’ve always been drawn to Gemini men. Their quick wit, their social butterfly-ness, their ability to talk about anything… it just gets me. But attracting them? That’s felt like a whole different ball game. So, I did some digging and started experimenting. Here’s what I did:
First, the Research (aka Googling Frenzy)
I spent, like, a whole evening, just reading articles and forum posts. It was a lot of “Leos are too bossy” and “Geminis get bored easily,” which, honestly, was a bit discouraging. But I kept going!
The Plan of Attack (aka My Little Experiment)
Based on my deep dive, I decided to focus on a few key things:
- Showing Off My Sparkle: Leos love to shine, right? So, I started being more… me. I wore that bright red dress I usually save for “special occasions,” I laughed a little louder at jokes, I shared my opinions more freely (even if they were a bit out there). I was a little nervous, but that’s part of the experience.
- Being a Conversation Queen: Geminis love to talk, so I made a conscious effort to engage more in conversations. I asked more questions, listened actively (this was the hard part!), and tried to find common interests to bounce back and forth. I’d even prepare some conversation topics in my head before going out.
- Embracing Spontaneity: This one was tough for me because I like to plan! But I tried to go with the flow more. Last-minute movie invite? Sure! Random trip to a new coffee shop? Why not! I started saying “yes” a lot more.
- Keeping it Light and Fun: I realized I can sometimes get a bit intense, especially when I’m passionate about something. So I worked on keeping things lighthearted and playful. More jokes, more teasing, less deep philosophical discussions (at least at first!).
The Implementation (aka Putting Myself Out There)
I started small. I went to a few social gatherings with friends, and to be honest I practiced on some people first. I focused on being more engaging, showing my personality, and just having fun. It felt awkward at first, like I was trying too hard. But the more I did it, the more natural it became. I even struck up a conversation with a cute Gemini guy at a bookstore (major win!). We talked about our favorite authors for, like, an hour. I don’t think I felt awkward at all!
The Results (aka Did It Work?)
Okay, so I haven’t magically manifested my dream Gemini husband yet. But, I’ve definitely noticed a shift. I feel more confident, more engaging, and I’m having more fun. I was approached a lot more in public, and I even started chatting with this really cute Gemini dude, a barista at my favorite coffee shop. We’ve been chatting for a few weeks now, and he’s asked me about my favorite music, my hobbies, even my slightly embarrassing obsession with astrology! He actually seemed interested.
I am thinking to ask him to hang out next time, fingers crossed! I’ll give an update next time!
