Alright, so, a while back, I got into this whole astrology thing. It all started when I was trying to figure out some relationship stuff in my own life. You know how it is, sometimes you just need some guidance, right?
So, I began messing around with charts and compatibility and all that jazz. One day, I had this client come in. She’s a Libra, and she was all stressed about her relationship with her Capricorn boyfriend. It was clear that she really cared about him and wanted things to work out, but they were just hitting so many bumps.
I remember sitting down with her, and the first thing I did was pull up their birth charts. I started doing all these calculations. Then, I compared their charts side-by-side, and it became pretty obvious where their issues were stemming from.
Here’s the thing about Libras and Capricorns:
- Libras are all about harmony and balance. They love being social and are usually pretty diplomatic.
- Capricorns, on the other hand, are super grounded and practical. They’re the ambitious, hardworking types.
This difference was causing some real friction between them. I explained to her, “Look, you’re this air sign, always flitting about, wanting to socialize and keep things light. He’s an earth sign, he needs stability and structure.”
She got it. She started nodding, like, “Yeah, that makes sense.” She told me about how she always wanted to go out and do things, while he preferred to stay in and work on his projects. And how she’d try to talk things out, but he’d just shut down.
So, I gave her some practical advice. I said, “You gotta understand where he’s coming from. He shows love through actions, not always words. Maybe try appreciating the little things he does.” And I told her that maybe she could plan some activities that they both enjoy, something that bridges their interests.
Finding the Middle Ground
For him, I suggested that he needs to open up more. “Communication is key,” I told her to tell him. “He needs to express his feelings, even if it’s uncomfortable for him.” I also mentioned that he could try to be a bit more flexible, to meet her halfway sometimes. It is important to join her in social activities occasionally.
She took all of this to heart. A few weeks later, she came back and told me things were actually improving. They were making an effort to understand each other, to compromise. It wasn’t perfect, but they were communicating better and appreciating each other’s differences.
It was a real eye-opener for me, seeing how this astrology stuff could actually help people in real life. It’s not just about predicting the future or whatever. It’s about understanding yourself and others on a deeper level. And that’s what I’ve been focusing on ever since in my practice.
