Okay, so, about getting a Scorpio man to chase you… I’ve been there, done that, and let me tell you, it’s a bit of a rollercoaster. But hey, it worked for me, so I’m gonna spill all the tea.
Phase 1: The Initial Spark
First things first, I didn’t go out looking for a Scorpio. It just kinda happened. I was at this art exhibition, totally engrossed in this one piece, and he just… appeared. We started talking about the art, and I made sure to hold eye contact, you know, really show I was engaged.
- Be present: I genuinely listened to what he was saying, asked follow-up questions, and shared my own (brief) thoughts.
Phase 2: Intrigue, Intrigue, Intrigue
After that first meeting, I didn’t bombard him with messages. Nope. I waited. I posted a story on my social media about another exhibition I was going to, something related to what we’d talked about. He saw it, and he messaged me. Boom.
- Don’t be overly available: I let him initiate the next contact. It’s about showing you have your own life.
Phase 3: Get him talk
When we did start chatting more, I made a conscious effort to, Let him talk. If he says he likes old book, I ask him where his favorite old book store is, and did he find any treasure recently, blablabla.
- Be a good listener:
Let him to express his own thoughts.
Phase 4: Showing, Not Telling
I did let little bits of my personality shine through. Like, I mentioned a challenging project I was working on (without complaining!), showing I was ambitious. I also talked about my close friends, showing I valued loyalty. These are things Scorpios supposedly dig.
- Be authentic, but selective: I didn’t reveal everything at once. I highlighted qualities that I thought would resonate with him.
Phase 5: The Slow Burn
This is the hardest part. It took time. We’d have intense conversations, then I’d pull back a little, give him space. It felt counterintuitive, but I think it created this magnetic pull. He started initiating more and more, planning dates, being more open emotionally.
- Be patient: This isn’t a sprint, it’s a marathon. Don’t rush the process.
Phase 6: The Chase is On
Eventually, it was clear he was hooked. He was pursuing me, making plans, being vulnerable. It was like the roles had completely reversed. And honestly, that feeling was pretty great.
- Enjoy it: If it got this far, you did good.
So, yeah, that’s my story. It’s not a foolproof formula, every Scorpio is different. But these things worked for me. The key is to be yourself, be a little mysterious, and let him come to you. Good luck!
