Okay, so I wanted to figure out this whole “how to make a Scorpio man miss you” thing. I mean, who hasn’t been there, right? It’s not about playing games, but more about understanding the Scorpio vibe and, well, making sure you’re living your best life, which is naturally attractive.
My Experiment Begins
First, I stepped back a bit. Scorpios are intense, and they appreciate a bit of mystery. I didn’t ghost him completely, but I definitely dialed back the constant texting and calls. I wanted him to wonder what I was up to.
- Less Initiating: I stopped being the one to always reach out first. Big change for me, honestly.
- Shorter Replies: When we did chat, I kept my replies shorter and a little less revealing. No more spilling my entire day in one text.
Focusing on My Own Thing
This was the crucial part. I started doing things I enjoyed. I’m not talking about faking it for Instagram, either. I genuinely reconnected with some old hobbies.
- Started painting again. It’s messy, but it’s my messy.
- Joined a hiking group. Fresh air, good views, and zero cell service some of the time. Perfect!
- Read more. I’ve had a stack of books I’ve been meaning to get to for ages.
I wasn’t doing this to make him miss me, but that was a nice side effect. I was genuinely feeling happier and more confident. I even updated my profile picture with one from a hike, looking all windswept and, dare I say, radiant.
The Subtle Art of “Running Into” Him
Okay, this might sound a little calculated, but it worked. I “accidentally” ran into him at a coffee shop we both frequent. I didn’t make a big deal of it. Just a quick, friendly “Hey!” and a genuine smile. I chatted for a few minutes, but then said I had to run to meet a friend (which was true!).
The Results
It wasn’t instant, but it worked. He started reaching out more. He was curious about what I’d been up to. The conversations felt more…engaged. He even admitted he’d noticed I seemed different, in a good way. He said he liked the little bit of distance, that it makes things more exciting.
The biggest takeaway? It wasn’t about playing games. It was about genuinely focusing on myself and letting him see that I have my own exciting life. That’s what made him miss me – the independent, confident woman he was initially attracted to. And honestly, I feel better too, so it’s a win-win!
