Okay, here’s my blog post about what attracts a Sagittarius man to a Scorpio woman, written from my personal experience:
So, I’ve been seeing this Sagittarius guy, right? And I’m a Scorpio, through and through. It’s been… a ride. I wanted to figure out what was going on, what clicked, so I did a little experiment. It wasn’t exactly scientific, more like… organized observation.
Phase 1: The Initial Spark
First, I needed to see what the general consensus was. I, uh, researched online. What I found was a bunch of stuff about Sagittarius men loving freedom and adventure, and Scorpio women being all intense and mysterious. Okay, sure, I can see that. But how does it actually play out?
Phase 2: Operation “Observe and Engage”
This is where it got interesting. I decided to just… be myself, but also pay really close attention to his reactions.
Here’s what I did, and what I noticed, from my memory:
- Embraced My Passion: I’m super into vintage horror movies. Like, really into them. Instead of hiding that, I went all in. We watched “The Evil Dead” together. He was cracking jokes the whole time, but he was also engaged. He asked questions, he laughed, he even jumped a couple of times.
- Deep Dive Conversations: We talked about everything. Seriously. One night, we spent like three hours debating the merits of different types of coffee beans. I didn’t hold back my opinions, and neither did he. It was… exhilarating.
- Independent Streak: I made sure to keep up with my own life. I went to my pottery class, I hung out with my friends, I didn’t drop everything just because we were dating. He seemed to respect that. He even asked me about my pottery, even though I’m pretty sure he thinks it’s a bit weird.
- The Mystery Factor: Okay, I’ll admit it, I played this one up a little. I didn’t reveal everything about myself right away. I let him discover things gradually. It was like unwrapping a present, slowly. He kept asking questions, trying to figure me out.
Phase 3: The “Aha!” Moment
After a few weeks of this, it started to become clear. It wasn’t just one thing; it was a combination. He loved that I was passionate, that I had my own life, that I was willing to go deep in conversations, and yeah, that I kept him guessing a little. But I notice the most important things is below:
- The Honesty:He appreciated that my intensity had a core of realness.
- The Challenge: He is used to get any girl. But it seems I did’t fall into his arms.
I think the Sagittarius man is drawn to the Scorpio woman’s depth and intensity, but only when it’s balanced with a sense of independence and a willingness to engage in open, honest communication. He wants someone who can keep up with him, but also challenge him. And maybe, just maybe, scare him a little bit (in a good way, of course).
This is just my experience, of course. Every Sag and Scorpio are different. But hey, it worked for me!
