Okay, so I’ve been dating this Scorpio woman for a few months, and let me tell you, figuring them out is like trying to solve a riddle wrapped in an enigma. Seriously! But, I’m persistent, so I started paying really close attention. Here’s what I did, and how it kind of, sort of, maybe helped me figure out if she’s actually into me.
The Observation Phase
First, I just watched her. Like, a lot. Not in a creepy way, I promise! I just started noticing the little things.
- Eye Contact: Scorpios are known for their intense gaze. At the start, it was fleeting. She’d look, then look away quickly. But lately? She holds my gaze, and it’s…intense. Like, soul-searching intense. That felt like a shift.
- Deep Dive Conversations: Our early conversations were pretty surface-level. You know, the usual “how was your day” stuff. Then, slowly, she started opening up. Asking about my childhood, my dreams, my fears. She remembered details I’d mentioned in passing weeks before. That felt like she was actually listening, not just waiting for her turn to talk.
- The “Secret” Test: I told her a “secret” – nothing major, just a slightly embarrassing story from my past. I wanted to see if she’d keep it to herself. And she did! Didn’t breathe a word of it to anyone, even when it would have been a funny story to share with our mutual friends.
The Action Phase
After observing, I started to subtly change my behaviors to see how she reacts.
- Initiating Physical Touch: This was tricky. I didn’t want to be pushy, but I also wanted to gauge her reaction. So, I started small. A light touch on the arm when we were laughing, brushing her hand when we reached for the same thing. Her response? She didn’t pull away. In fact, she seemed to lean into it, ever so slightly.
- Showing Vulnerability: I started sharing more personal things with her, showing a bit of vulnerability. I talked about a work project that was stressing me out, or a family issue I was dealing with. Her response was incredibly supportive and empathetic. She offered advice, but more importantly, she just listened.
- Quality Time, Not Just Quantity: Instead of just going out to noisy bars, I started planning dates that were more intimate. A quiet dinner at home, a walk in the park, a visit to a museum. I wanted to create opportunities for real connection, not just superficial interaction. She responded really well to this, seemed to genuinely enjoy the one-on-one time.
The (Possible) Conclusion
So, does she love me? I’m still not 100% sure. Scorpio women are masters of keeping their emotions close to the vest. But, based on my little experiment, all signs point to a strong “yes, she’s very, very into me.” The increased eye contact, the deep conversations, the guarded secrets, the response to physical touch, the willingness to be vulnerable with each other, the preference for quality time…it all adds up. I think the biggest takeaway is that with a Scorpio woman, it’s not about grand gestures. It’s about the subtle shifts, the quiet moments, the unspoken understanding. It’s a slow burn, but I think, and hope, it’s a fire that’s definitely building.
I might continue to do this to see if she will show more.
