Aquarius men are the kind who, once they set their minds on something, will give it their all, never wanting to let anyone down. Yet, there’s a stereotype out there that Aquarius men are player types, which isn’t exactly fair. These guys are a bit all over the place, making it tough to really get a grip on their hearts. They’re all about that initial spark, but it fades quickly, and they get tagged with all sorts of labels because of it. But in reality, Aquarius men are pretty black and white when it comes to relationships; when they’re in, they’re all in, and when they’re out, they’re out. They’re also not shy about what they don’t like.
Take, for example, the gold diggers. Aquarius men, who often have a strong game in the workplace and know the value of hard-earned cash, are totalturn-offs to these types of women. They appreciate what they have and work for what they want. Women who are all about money and rely on others to get ahead? Not impressive to an Aquarius guy. These women are often vain, manipulative, and will stop at nothing to get what they want, even using their looks to entice others. To an Aquarius man, that’s just icky.
Then there’s the do-gooders. Aquarius men are generally open-minded and up for making friends with anyone, but they really can’t stand the whole thing. They’re all about that free-spirited vibe, and the last thing they want is someone trying to push their so-called "goodness" on them. Being with someone like that is like walking on eggshells, and Aquarius men hate feeling pressured. So, those kinds of women? Not the right fit.
And let’s not forget the ones who love to play the field. Aquarius men are pretty straightforward in their relationships; they can’t stand the thought of their girl playing games with other guys. Even if nothing concrete is going on, the idea alone is a total deal-breaker. Women who like to keep things spicy with multiple men are seen as flighty and untrustworthy. An Aquarius man would rather be alone than hook up with someone like that.
I remember once, a friend of mine – an Aquarius to a T – had a run-in with a gold digger. She was all about the finer things in life, and he was all about earning his keep. He took her out a couple of times, but as soon as he sensed that her interest was more in his wallet than in him, he cut it off. He told me, "I’d rather spend my money on a good book than waste it on someone who’s just using me."
Then there was another friend, also an Aquarius, who got tangled up with a girl who just loved being the center of attention. She was always surrounded by a posse of admirers, and it drove him crazy. He told me, "I just want someone who’s into me, not someone who’s into the whole show." He ended up calling it quits because the emotional juggling act was too much for him.
Aquarius men are complex creatures. They want a connection that’s real, not one that’s based on material things or games. They’re looking for someone who gets them, who appreciates the unique way they view the world. So, if you’re looking to win an Aquarius man’s heart, be genuine, be yourself, and leave the games and the drama at the door.
