Okay, so I tried this whole “getting a Gemini man to chase you” thing. Let me tell you, it was a ride. First off, I tried to show him I was like, super adaptable. You know, Geminis love that flexible vibe. So, I started by being all chill and going with the flow. One day we were supposed to grab coffee, but then he texted me last minute about some concert in the park. I was like, “Coffee? Nah, concert sounds way better!” I pretended I was spontaneous, even though I’m usually all about my planner.
Be Direct
Then, I remembered reading somewhere that these guys dig directness. So I just straight-up told him I was into him. No beating around the bush. I just said, “Hey, I think you’re pretty cool, and I like hanging out with you.” It felt weird, but I did it.
Flexibility is Key
I also made an effort to be like, extra flexible. If he wanted to change plans, I was all for it. Even if I secretly wanted to stick to the original plan, I just acted like I was cool with whatever. And I tried to keep things interesting, you know? One day we’d be checking out some new exhibit, the next we’d be at a dive bar. Just keeping him on his toes, I guess.
Show Your Free Side
I also tried to be a bit mysterious, you know? Dropping little hints about myself but not spilling all the beans at once. Like, he asked me about my hobbies, and I just mentioned a couple of things, but not everything. I think it worked because he kept asking me questions, trying to figure me out. Geminis are curious cats, so I figured this would keep him interested.
- Being direct
- Flexibility is important
- Keep him on his toes.
- Being mysterious
Honestly, it was kind of exhausting pretending to be so go-with-the-flow all the time. But, I gotta say, he did seem more into it. He started calling and texting more, and he seemed genuinely interested in what I had to say. He even started planning dates, which was a huge change. So, I guess it worked, in a way? We’ll see how long this lasts, but for now, I’m enjoying the chase. It seems like those tips helped me grab his attention.