Okay, here’s my blog post about how I tried to make a Capricorn woman obsessed with me:
So, I had this HUGE crush on this Capricorn woman, Sarah. Seriously, she was like, the epitome of everything I found attractive: driven, ambitious, super smart, and had this dry wit that just killed me. But Capricorns? They’re notoriously hard to, you know, get. They’re not the types to fall for cheesy lines or over-the-top gestures. I knew I had to play it cool, but also, I really wanted her to notice me. So, I did some digging and decided to try a few things.
Phase 1: The “Show, Don’t Tell” Approach
First thing I learned? Capricorns respect hard work and ambition. They’re not impressed by talk; they want to see action. So, I stopped just talking about my goals and started, well, actually working on them. I had this side project I’d been putting off – building a website for my photography. I dove headfirst into that. Late nights, lots of coffee, the whole nine yards.
I didn’t shove it in her face, though. I’d casually mention it in conversation, like, “Yeah, been swamped lately, working on this website thing…it’s a pain, but it’ll be cool when it’s done.” I think that piqued her interest. She started asking more questions about it, which gave me a chance to show my passion (without being a show-off, I hoped!).
Phase 2: Being the Rock
Capricorns, from what I read, value stability and reliability. They want someone they can count on. So, I made a conscious effort to be that person. If I said I’d do something, I did it. No flaking, no excuses. I even started being more punctual, which, honestly, was a struggle for me, haha.
- Offered to help her with a work project she was stressed about. (She was totally swamped with spreadsheets, and I’m surprisingly good at those.)
- Remembered little things she mentioned, like her favorite coffee order. (Black, two sugars. Got it!)
- Just generally tried to be a supportive and dependable presence in her life.
Phase 3: The Slow Burn
This was the hardest part for me, because I’m naturally a bit impatient. But Capricorns are all about the long game. They don’t rush into anything. So, I had to resist the urge to, like, declare my undying love after two weeks. I focused on building a genuine connection, a friendship, first.
We started having these great conversations, not just about work, but about our lives, our goals, our fears. I listened, really listened, to what she had to say. I offered advice when she asked for it, but mostly, I just tried to be a good friend.
The Result?
Okay, so, did she become “obsessed” with me? Maybe not in the dramatic, rom-com sense. But… something definitely shifted. We started dating, slowly at first, then more seriously. She told me she appreciated my steadiness, my ambition, and the fact that I “got” her. That I didn’t try to change her or rush her.
It wasn’t a magic formula, and it definitely took effort. But by understanding what makes a Capricorn tick – that desire for stability, respect, and genuine connection – I was able to build a relationship with a woman I truly admire. And yeah, I’m pretty darn happy about that. It was more about being the best version of myself, rather than some tricks, and that worked in the end. The key was genuine effort and patience.
