Okay, so, I had this huge crush on this Capricorn guy, right? And I was like, “How do I get this dude to notice me?” I mean, Capricorns are known for being all serious and ambitious, and I’m, well, let’s just say I’m not exactly known for my five-year plans. But I was determined, so I started doing some digging, just really basic stuff. I’m no expert, but i just start doing it, and it just works!
First thing I did, I tried to look a little more, you know, put together. I noticed he was always dressed pretty sharp, not flashy, but classy. So, I ditched the ripped jeans and started wearing stuff that made me look like I had my life in order, even if I didn’t. It wasn’t about being someone I wasn’t, but more like showing the best version of myself. I chose a few classic pieces that made me feel confident and put together. Like, I started wearing this tailored blazer I had buried in my closet, and I swapped out my usual sneakers for some nice flats. It’s a super normal way. And I feel good, he seems to notice it!
Next, I realized this guy was all about integrity. I mean, you could just tell he valued honesty and hard work. So, I made sure to always be genuine around him. I didn’t try to pretend I was some high-powered executive or anything. I was just myself, but the most honest and reliable version of myself. I made sure to follow through on my commitments, even the small ones, and I was always upfront about my opinions. No games, just straight talk, just be myself. And I think he picked up on that, it just easy to do it.
Then, I focused on just being his friend. I didn’t want to come on too strong, you know? So, I started by just being a good listener. I asked him about his work, his interests, and I really paid attention to what he said. And I started hanging out with him and our mutual friends more often. We’d grab coffee or lunch, just casual stuff. I made an effort to be someone he could rely on, someone he enjoyed spending time with. I think this is the most important part. I found we actually had a lot in common, and we started having some really great conversations. It felt natural, not forced, that make me really enjoy.
Slowly, I started incorporating some subtle flirting. Nothing over the top, just some light touches on the arm, maintaining eye contact, and, my god, laughing at his jokes, even the corny ones, make him feel that I am interested in him. And, I made sure to compliment him on things that I genuinely admired, like his work ethic or his intelligence.
My little recap
- Got a bit dressed up: Didn’t go full makeover, but showed him I could clean up nice.
- Showed him I was a good person: Just being honest and dependable, you know?
- Became his friend first: No pressure, just good company.
- Flirted a little: Just enough to show I was interested.
And guess what? It worked! We started dating, and it’s been amazing. He told me later that he was drawn to my confidence and my genuine personality. It wasn’t about playing games or pretending to be someone I wasn’t. It was about showing him the best version of myself and letting things develop naturally. So, yeah, that’s my story of how I attracted my Capricorn man. It wasn’t rocket science, just a bit of effort and a lot of being myself. Maybe this can help you, too!
