Okay, so, I’ve been on this whole Capricorn man thing lately. You know, trying to figure out what makes these guys tick, what they’re drawn to, the whole nine yards. It’s been a journey, let me tell you.
First off, I started by just observing. I noticed this Capricorn guy at work, super reserved, kept to himself mostly. But, man, when he opened up around people he liked, it was like a switch flipped. Jokes, teasing, the whole shebang. So, I thought, “Okay, humor is a way in, got it.” I tried cracking a few jokes myself, you know, just casual stuff, and watched for his reactions.
- And guess what?
- He actually laughed.
- It wasn’t just a polite chuckle, it was a real laugh.
- I mean, I didn’t realize he had such a great sense of humor.
And it seems like Capricorn men are usually quiet, but they show their humorous side with people they like. So, the next time you see them, try a joke and see what happens. This one time, I decided to be a bit bolder. I talked about my own goals, you know? Like, where I see myself in five years, the projects I’m passionate about, that sort of thing. I wanted to show him I wasn’t just some airhead, that I had ambition and drive. And you know what? He seemed genuinely interested. We even got into a whole conversation about career paths and stuff.
Another thing I did was give him compliments. But not just any compliments, you know? I made sure they were specific and about his talents or skills. Like, I remember telling him how impressed I was with the way he handled a particularly tricky client. He seemed to appreciate that, like, really appreciate it. He even opened up a bit more after that, which was cool.
Be yourself
Then there was this whole emotional thing. I read somewhere that Capricorns appreciate it when you can handle your emotions without being a total drama queen. So, I made a conscious effort to stay calm, even when things got a bit stressful at work. Like, I wouldn’t freak out over every little thing, you know? I’d just take a deep breath and deal with it. I think he picked up on that, because he started treating me differently. More respect, I guess you could say.
All in all, it was a learning experience. It wasn’t about changing who I was to impress some guy. It was more about understanding what he valued and showing him that I had those qualities too. And you know what? It worked. We started hanging out more, going for coffee, that sort of thing. It wasn’t like fireworks or anything, but it was a genuine connection. And it all started with just paying attention, you know? Just observing and figuring things out. That’s how you do it.